Ôkami calls for heeelp... q.q

[Karmiininpuna]

Yesh... Well..
I am way too unexperienced in this, but..
I need tell a girl that I love her.
In a most romantic way possible.
.. And yes, I suck at these things.

Well, for those that don't know, there is going to be a mid-summer festival at Finland soon, called Juhannus. It's a day when night won't come.
Yes, light for 24-hours... I think that it is just the perfect moment for this?

I was planning to do this..
1) I call her out, if she would like to go out town...
2) Lead her to a lake..
3) Chat a bit and so..
4) Give her a necklace and a letter with the lyric of a song I made to her..
5) See what happens..

Yeh, well, the thing is that I get the tools for that jewel making on monday.. And it takes time since I have other things to do. And Juhannus is here in 1,5 weeks. Yes, I am in rush, big, big rush.

But.. I'm not certain if this sounds so good, so..
Please help..? q.q

[Mikado]

If you can make jewely on your own.. do so.
And talk to her allot. If you don't she wil get bored. Just ask her on a date..

[Blackhook]

Do what is your Hearth saying Brother.......(I can´t believe I said something that clished XXXXP)

[Doogles]

What you're planning sounds perfect. Stick with it.

[tuckur21]

Well are you two dating or something?
If not don't use the word love or you'll come on much too strong but make it sound too much like you just want to get into her pants.

Just talk to her tell her some compliments and don't do anything stupid ex. try and touch her inappropriately or kiss her unless she does so first.

Anyway good luck.

[Kairos]

More stuff then what I would do. So, go with it.

[sirius]

From a girls prospective, it sounds very good! (Heck, I'd enjoy it!) I don't really know what your situation is (whether you're just friends and you want to date her, or if you are already dating and you want to tell her that you love her). If you're just friends, I think telling her that you love her might freak her out a bit, but if you do what you have planned, she'll know that you love her, without getting freaked about it. If you're already dating, just forget what I said and tell her! What girl wouldn't melt if a guy made her something AND wrote her a song?!?

[Karmiininpuna]

Gee, now I am in heck of a rush.. She's going away to England on the midsummer.. (EDIT: She's leaving on 18th..) (I don't remember the name of that place, some kind of a harbor city or something it was..) So I gotta go and do the chain pretty much right now.. Darned thing is that I get the tools on monday/tuesday.. And I have agreed to meet her on friday.
Yesh, sleepless nights, just what I needed...

But, thanks everyone for your advice.. Gotta now just see what happens...

And by the way...
*Just has noticed the General Help forum, notices that this is in General Chat. Looks at the title of this topic.*
Well... crud. <,<''

[Daemonseele]

And by the way...
*Just has noticed the General Help forum, notices that this is in General Chat. Looks at the title of this topic.*
Well... crud. <,<''
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[Type-BLUES.EXE]

Good luck with it man.
When you do it, pray to any god that you believe in that she's not in a bad mood.

[Bi-Q]

okami, don´t do that what you said before, it wont work...
You are way too fast with that, just go out with her, for a drink or something
But don´t buy or make her stuff, not yet!

[Dead Panda]

Good luck.

And didn't Bi-Q, didn't you say that you weren't gonna' be able to go on SI...?

[DragonZero]

24 Hours of DayLight...? Woah. Vampires' WORST NIGHTMARE.

Do you have a 24 Hour Day of Night, too? Now THAT would be Romantic!

But, as far as Romance goes, hand-made Jewelry is one of the Best Ideas I've ever heard. The effect will be subjective to your current RelationShip StandPoint.

[Karmiininpuna]

*Sigh*
Thanks all.. But well.. Nothing's going to happen.
I don't want to go to details but.. She understood my feeling and all.. But doesn't think that we are made for each other.

[Dead Panda]

:O That's too bad... And as my divorced mom(who is slightly crazy) says: "There's lots of other fish in the sea!"

[RyuReiatsu]

:O That's too bad... And as my divorced mom(who is slightly crazy) says: "There's lots of other fish in the sea!"

Don't say that yet, it's too fresh.
He won't believe in that, I was like that.

Okami- I'm sorry for what happened, but try to stay strong. Though don't try to rely too much on your friends about that, otherwise they'll kick you (I know that because the girl I loved-asfriends the most kicked me out of her life)

Don't do anything stupid such as self-cut and stuffs like that.
Try to relax, try to take life easy.
I know you won't believe in it yet, but there's always another girl for you (well I still don't really believe in that...but what ever)

Some people have gone through worse, so don't feel ashamed.


And right now, she may not really understand them as she says...
Someday, when she'll realize how much you loved her, she'll know what she missed. As for now, if she ever likes you and you still love/like her, then try to go on slowly.

Simply because she didn't do anything bad (ex: The girl I loved went out with my childhood friend instead of choosing me, yet she made me wait for a year)


Another trick, if you feel very down.
Smile, you'll see, it works. I know, I'm sure you're like "why would I smile godammit...", but try and talk as if you were happy without thinking of it.
It works...


As for now, I'll leave you with these little words...

Good luck, and don't waste your time doubting or crying.
Try to find happiness through fun!